Xander Reed Lowe

i wish you the best in finding peace in this beautiful child's death i wish you all the best and hope for some healing peace good luck to you all in this journey of grief

Jana It's hard to believe that the one year anniversary of your sons passing is coming up.Hun just stay strong and know that he is up there in heaven looking down telling you mom I'm ok and I'm happy.I know it is still hard for you and in time I'm sure it will get easier.You have so many family and friends that will be there to support you if you and your family if you need them.I have been in your shoes and you know that I'm always here if you need to talk.You and I both have "Soldiers" In heaven that are just having a great time together.Trust me I know how bad you hurt and you wonder why a lot.But please if you need to talk just give me a call.I promise I will be here with open ears and the best advice I can give.My Prayers are with you guys as you come up on this 1 year anniversary.Just know to that GOD only gives us what we can handle.Keep the faith and just know Hun that Xander is happy and he is up there watching down on all of you..Love you guys..

Xanders Family:  So very sorry for your loss...Im quite sure there is a special place in Heaven for darling little angels that leave us too soon!!!   You will all be in my prayers and thoughts. Sending love and hugs!!!

Jana, you have created a beautiful memorial for your sweet Xander.  I am so sorry for your loss of your precious baby.  Know that others care and understand your pain of losing a child.  May God bless you and your family.  ((hugs))

Jana -- You and Xander are often on my mind.  I just HATE Cystic Fibrosis.  I'm hearing you are having a pretty tough time now and I don't know any way to make it easier other than to let you know that you are being thought of.   (((HUGS))).

Your little man's name is Xander I can see in his eyes a light that shines so bright in the hearts of you, his family. Your little man has courage that he imparts to all who see him. Your little man is speaking with each note you place in his honor. Your little man brings togetherness by virtue of his living. Now he is no longer with us at least that is one perspective. I say to you he lives on in your memories and your songs. Your Little Man - Xander - Thank you Ronald and Family for sharing - the love you give is strong! Your classmate, Cassy

What an awesome site in memory of your precious Xander. It was so good to see you at church today, your whole family. When we are grieving it is so important to stay connected with people that can help you get through the hurt. The saying NO MAN IS AN ISLAND is so true...we all need each other to get beyond these hurtful times and to make to HEAVEN. What more would we want than to make it to Heaven to see our loved ones. I can just see Xander waving his arm " Come on Mommy and Daddy....I will be waiting for you. Do all you can do to get here. This is an awesome place..and we will never be separated. 

Jana, you will never be alone. We will always be around to lend an ear. You held an angel in your arms for a short while, believe that he is happier than you could ever imagine. I truly believe that, my friend.

Thank you for sharing your precious son.  I love the songs you have chosen.  Your little man has such "old man eyes".  So intense and wise.  I have lost two sons who at least lived with me until they were 22.  My grandsons have been a huge blessing for me.  One of them is 16 months and the thought of anything happen to him being so small just kills me.  I have often wondered how parents who lose their babies small deal with it.  But we cannot live each day worrying about the "if's" or else we will not be enjoying "The Dance".  So just be there for your other children, and love them all the more.  Make a pact to try to make their time here as wonderful as it can be.  My heart and prayers are with you. 

Crystal from TCF chat